I heard with my own ears, “Why is she even still alive?” in my son’s backyard while I was still holding a cobbler fresh from the oven, and I walked in like I hadn’t heard a thing, sat down at the edge of the table where no one greeted me, no one looked at me, and not one grandchild could manage to call me Grandma — and the next morning, an old drawer got opened in a way they should have been afraid of a long time ago
“Why is she even still alive?” The words came through the slats of my son’s backyard gate as cleanly as…