“rosa, go help in the kitchen! you’d be more comfortable with the staff!” my daughter’s fiancé said this at her rehearsal dinner. in front of seventy guests. his mother patricia just laughed and agreed. i stood up, looked him in the eye, and said “no.” what happened next is something he’ll never forget.
“Rosa, why don’t you go help in the kitchen? You’d be more comfortable with the staff.” The fork stopped halfway…