I arrived 20 minutes late to my own 60th birthday party at my daughter’s house, cars lined both sides of the street, my hand had just touched the doorknob when I heard my son-in-law raise a glass and laugh, “Without the old man around, everybody breathes easier,” the whole room burst out laughing, and the one who laughed the longest was my daughter — I stepped back off the porch very quietly, and nobody in that house knew I had arrived in time for the truest part.
I was standing on my daughter’s front porch with a white bakery box balanced against my hip when my son-in-law…