Christmas at the dining table in our suburban Chicago kitchen looked perfect—twinkling lights, the smell of turkey drifting through the house—until my niece tapped her spoon against a glass and raised her voice to toast to being “the only grandchild.” No one corrected her. My mom smiled and nodded. My dad even lifted his glass like it was the sweetest thing said all night. My 12-year-old daughter froze, eyes locked on her plate, swallowing her tears so no one would feel awkward. I didn’t yell. I didn’t argue. I held my breath for one beat—long enough to see who would fix it. No one did. So I stood up.
My niece toasted to being the only grandchild. No one corrected her. At Christmas, my niece clinked her glass and…